I recently read Harry Chapman's book "The Five Love Languages" and I really liked it, so I decided to share it with you!
The author claims that there are 5 love languages, but I would call them the language of communication, understanding and perception of each other.
All these "languages" are present in each of us, but for some it is more obvious, for others less so, you just need to listen to others and determine their priority "languages"
Now let's take a little look at each of them.
Words of forgiveness
Praise, compliments, pet names, approval, etc.
As everyone knows, girls love with their ears, and not only girls, praise each other.
It is very important to hear from each other that you can do it, you will succeed, I believe in you, and the less criticism, the better.
Time
Everyone knows the phrase if only my loved one were nearby...
Time spent together in a quality manner.
For this type, it is very important to always find time to be together and it does not really matter what you do.
Gifts
A material expression of your feelings. It is not for nothing that lovers say "I want to give you the whole world."
Pamper each other with gifts starting from small ones, such as a chocolate bar, pie, a favorite magazine, a CD, and ending with larger ones))
Help
Help each other. What could be better than cooking dinner together, helping each other with some chores. Meet each other from work, make delicious sandwiches for him to take to work.
Touches
Caresses, massages, sex, kisses, stroking and everything that we call physical contact.
Delight each other with relaxing massages, stroke each other when passing by, hold each other's hands when talking.
If your love languages do not match, look for something that will unite them.
What is closer to you, what "languages" of love do you encounter in your relationship?
Happy marriages and strong love to you!!!